Below are some letters to Pastors and their Families which you might also find useful.
"Many wives pushed their husbands to be more "spiritual" in order, so they thought, to please Me. This method does not work, My daughter, it will surely fail.
Your husband is My servant, not yours. Do not hope that by pressures on him, he will serve Me better. In fact, check your motive first.
Are you secretly hoping for his promotion, a higher income and greater status in the eyes of others and yours? Wait for Me to transform, renew and reuse him. Wait with Me, My daughter, wait with me..."